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Senseless hatred

Another senseless rampage on the LGBTQ

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There is no understanding of hatred, especially hatred caused by misinterpretations of ideologies gleaned from the pages of religions.
Those who act in these ways are haters rather than true believers of their particular faith.
This shooter, like the others before him is not a hero, and most certainly he is not a martyr. His name and memory will be discarded upon the “loser” pile instead.
I am the proud mother of a gay man, and I love his partner Daniel. They are kind, well educated and giving persons and both are beautiful examples of the best of men.
© Zora Zebic 2016

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Hugh’s Weekly Photo Challenge: Week 28 – ‘Glorious’

Two larvae from the Monarch Butterfly Hatchery in my backyard.
My husband Barry was explaining to me how the lowly milkweed plant is genuinely a more magnificent gift than most gardeners would think. The reason – Monarch Butterflies are drawn to the plant as a perfect nursery for their eggs. The eggs hatch into the beautiful larvae shown in my photo. The worms, fully grown, attach themselves to a leaf where they will transform into a cocoon which is called a chrysalis. After ten days the regal Monarch will emerge and fly away.
Having finished telling me the story Barry pulled the car into a gas station on the highway. To my amazement, I saw a field of milkweed plants! Barry dug one up for me, and when we got home, he planted it. My milkweed has spread out into the lawn and Barry, unwilling to mow them down has taken to mowing around them!
From seed to larvae to chrysalis to butterfly. What a glorious and fantastic life!
© Zora Zebic 2016

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Suspense

I love this panoramic view of my husband Barry on the suspension bridge at Blue Mountain.
As a child, I had no trepidation of heights. Strangely our fears develop as we age.
I’d been breathless, clammy hands slipping from the rail on my third attempt to cross the bridge. A group of tourists waving little Japanese flags passed by, most dropping their gaze from me. I’d guessed they didn’t have the heart to watch my display of fear. One man though stopped, and he’d loudly said, “You’re not worth the money.” A young girl at his side had grown a look of shock at him.
I pondered what he said and realized he’d meant I had wasted the cost of the admission to the park. I resolved to get my money’s worth and cross that bridge.
The rowdy Japanese youth jumping up and down forcing the bridge to sway perilously did not make the crossing easier; but dammit I’d been determined to show that man he was mistaken!
When I’d reached my goal, crossing the bridge I’d patted myself on the back until the realization set in; I had to pass it once more to get back down the mountain! 🙂
© Zora Zebic 2016

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She kissed the bugs

She’d been a delicate child, but most who entered her life saw an exterior that did not match the interior soul. She climbed trees and onto rooftops without fear of heights. She did not fuss about her hair or the way she wore her clothes. She had no concern for the shell that housed her spirit. She kissed the bugs she found in the garden and ate the beautiful flowers, delighting in their delicious pollens.
The question that persisted in her mind was, “Why do the grown-ups hate me?” It was bad enough the other children evaded her as though she carried a communicable disease.
A voice only she could hear, spoke, shattering the fog of despair that had enveloped her mind, saying, “You are not a product of this world. They fear what they don’t understand. They attack in hopes you will defend yourself in a way they perceive to be normal. They wish to be the ones who can claim to have performed the miracle of healing. They do not comprehend they would destroy your spirit were they to cause this transformation.”
The voice consoled her and caressed her spirit with the final words, “Be still and be strong my beautiful flower. One day I will come back for you.”
© Zora Zebic 2016

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Toilet paper trail

She was always so melodramatic, my friend Lucy and today was just the beginning of another I Love Lucy Day.
I met her in the hallway outside the cafeteria of the hospital where we both worked and Lucy true to form sprouted an extra appendage; a trail of toilet paper from the bottom of her shoe. “Lucy, do you know about the toilet paper?” I asked with a sigh. “Of course! I glued it to the bottom of my shoe when I got in this morning.” That said, Lucy reached into her smock pocket and produced a small tube of glue. “Reinforcement in case it becomes unglued!”
“So this is how today will play?” I asked with a smile as Lucy melted her grin into her pretty pity face. Today Lucy had decided to capture herself a doctor.
I’d seen this gig once before in a bar. All night long other women pointed to the toilet streamer and giggled with glee. Lucy wore a pained look and as she walked past every guy she thought was cute while lamenting to me, “It is so embarrassing I had to wear these old shoes. Now everybody is laughing at me.” On every occasion, the ‘cute guy’ would glare at me, and I imagined they were thinking how terrible I was for not telling her about the toilet paper. Ah well, that was the price to pay for being Lucy’s friend.
© Zora Zebic 2016

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Shopping with justice

The shoplifter sashayed down the aisles. “Weird to walk that way, shouldn’t it draw attention?”I’d thought as I watched her slip a toaster, still in the box under her coat. “Should I tell somebody?” I pondered, weighing my scales of justice on the matter but my considerations were interrupted.
“Lady, you’re coming with me, we got to go to the office.” said the store security guard.
Relieved to be unburdened of the decision to do or not do the right thing I watched them walk away. My eyes connected with a man standing behind me. I watched in wonderment as he slid laundry soap pods under his leather coat!
“Nice day for shopping Ma’am?” He asked rather than stated and watching his face gain a menacing appearance and I remained silent.
© Zora Zebic 2016

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Jack and his bean stock

beans in a can, beans with a plastic spoon
© Zora Zebic 2016

I was 15, homeless and hadn’t eaten in 3 days. I could feel my body consuming the little bit of fat I’d stored. At 5’7″ weighing in at 110 pounds when I’d run away, I knew I wouldn’t survive long without food. My initial attempts at panhandling met the blank looks of strangers and equalled the emptiness in my outstretched hand.
A homeless boy told me of a soup kitchen. I’d never heard of this type of organization, but with wings sprouting from my tired feet I’d raced to the place to knock on the door. I had felt paralyzed by the words of the priest.
“We only serve men. Women have other ways of making money.” With the breath bashed out of my lungs I could only stand there staring at the door he’d slammed.
I did the only thing I could think to do. I determinedly walked the dozen or so blocks back to downtown and entered the dreaded variety store. Feared because the owner, who I will call Jack, had a reputation for beating senseless anyone who robbed him. I think that was merely a rumour started because he hated the parking meters the city put in front of his side street store and he despised the meter maids he said always hovered nearby.
With boldness, I said to him, “I’m starving, and I don’t want to steal from you. Can you please give me some food.” He answered, “I ain’t no charity.” I said I’m certain there was desperation in my voice, “I know but I’ve been to the charity, and they won’t give me anything.”
He came around the counter, and I feared he was about to toss me into the road. Instead, he grabbed a can of baked beans from the shelf and handed it to me. Delighted I said, “Would you be able to open the can for me?” He looked at me to then say, “My can opener is at home.” I pointed to the can openers he had for sale on the wall. Wordlessly he opened my can and pushed the lid back.
He shoved the can across the counter to me and asked, “What are you going to eat it with?” I held up two fingers and smiled. He pulled out a plastic spoon from beneath his sales counter and handed it to me. I’d never seen such a thing and said to him, “I never knew they made them in plastic. I’ll wash it and bring it back to you.”
“Get out and don’t come back.” he snarled. I will always thank God for leading me to my Good Samaritan and his can of beans.

© Zora Zebic 2016